Monday, December 1, 2008

Worry my ass!?

Have you been worrying a lot lately??

Morning worry, afternoon worry, evening worry, night worry, tomorrow worry again.. huh!!


Most of us worry too much on 'what others might think' on what we do, what we wear, what we watch and etc.. etc..

I personally think the word 'worry' on what others think should be change to 'care' on what others might think.

'Care on what others might think' means we are aware of the responsible and accountability, means we are matured when taking the choice. While 'worry' give a so-bad picture about what might happen, it does not reflect maturity but carries negative aroma.

The cousin of 'worry' is 'afraid', and afraid of what might and what will, is endemic in the society today.

Pampered in the comfort zone for too long, the society are unwilling to take risk to jump to the other side. It is strangely difficult to sit in front row when we are used to sit at the back or middle row (the comfort zone) - in church, meetings, forums etc.

People are afraid of critics and comments as well as afraid of giving out comments and critics. We usually hear the 'no comment' or even worse the 'silent protest' from the audience. It's somehow uncomfortable to voice out, so they stay quite.



People are afraid of how they look. They read the 'beauty magazine' to get tips on how to look beautiful and end up feeling ugly. The magazine tells them that blonde hair is a yes and white or black hair is a no. Aren't we all beautiful in our own ways?.

China's most respected Teacher, Confucius quotes "Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it" how true..

The UNCONVENTIONAL WORLD RECORDS nominated that this person is the ugliest person on earth...

But, that is only from his/her view. To some, that might be different (and we are not sure if there's a photoshop work in the photo, right?) - no offense to btw.

Even if you looks damm beautiful to others, some will just say they had enough of you.

except for the one in red, talk about how many of those two being dumb ^.^

The fact is what ever we do, there will always be some who will disagree or hate it.

We do the right thing - people still complaint
We do the wrong thing - people also complaint.


Be a matured good citizen - lets just do the right thing and leave the complaint alone.

Even God is full of love and still many disagree with God.

I like to end this sharing with a twisted story of
'The Pastor's Ass'

The pastor entered his donkey in a race and it won. The pastor was so pleased with the donkey that he entered it in the race again, and it won again.

The local paper read:

The Bishop was so upset with this kind of publicity that he ordered the
pastor not to enter the donkey in another race.

The next day, the local paper headline read:

This was too much for the bishop, so he ordered the pastor to get rid of the donkey. The pastor decided to give it to a nun in a nearby convent.

The local paper, hearing of the news, posted the following headline
the next day: NUN HAS BEST ASS IN TOWN.

The bishop fainted.

He informed the nun that she would have to get rid of the donkey, so
she sold it to a farmer for $10.

The next day the paper read:

This was too much for the bishop, so he ordered the nun to buy back
the donkey and lead it to the plains where it could run wild.

The next day the headlines read:

The bishop was buried the next day.


Being concerned about public opinion can bring you much grief and
misery even shorten your life!

So friends, be yourself and enjoy life!

Stop worrying about everyone else's ass and you'll be a lot happier and live longer! Have a good happy Monday!

Yeah! Thanks God it's Monday!


Feel free to comments. Constructive comments are highly welcome!




  1. I always have a constant worry bout my kids at home..tia mau pikir pun tepikir juga nie..But if you ask me worrying bout myself..tidak pulak..hehe

  2. Oh man,if i keep on bothering the saying of ppl around me, i wont be able to reach the point which i am in now. I wasn't brought up in a peaceful surroundings

    Anyway,happy tueday! :P

  3. "paduli apa urang cakap".. gitu punya atitude ada tu kan eheheheh.. tapi kdg2 ni komplen bagus juga bah.. ada kawan sa dulu da komplen pasal sa .. trus kami jadi kwn baik pla.. sa suka da abis terus terang.. kalo ada sayur telekat di gigi kasi tau la bah kan.. jan biar kwn tu malu hahaha .. jadilah kami kwn baik.. :D

  4. Anon: itu yang kita mahu ging, tahu menilai komen dari sekitaran dan sanggup memberi komen dengan baik :D ..sian juga kawan kawalu ada dungot tapi kita diam diam ja, tapi pandai-pandailah approach kan.. pura-pura bagi tisu kah.. lain pula kalau trus sound "odoi gia ging, ada dungot ko! pi dulu kama kasi bersih" kekeke

    kalau straight 'paduli apa orang cakap' adalah terlalu bersifat ke egoan. Tapi kalau kita tahu situasi kita dengan jelas, memang kita tidak risau apa orang akan cakap bah kan.. dorang mo cakap, cakap jalah.. nanti kita adjustlah mana2 yang patut.

    Trimas di atas komen anda! :)

  5. Yang gambar paling atas n paling bawah lebih cute..haha..


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